Random Rambling

Hope, love,hurt,despair,doom,hurt,despair,love,hope. Its a cycle. You can't fight it, you can't beat it.All you can do is submit with humility and take all that it has to offer in good stride. I am talking about "The Destiny" controlled by goddess Fortuna as they call it. Her gentle flip of the wheel can turn our lives upside down and another flip can simply make things fall back as if they were always meant to be.
Well I have seen people plan every step meticulously, follow the plan and be successful. I have also seen people who plan and fail and then learn to live by the moment and there are those who have always lived by the moment.

I fall under the second category. I planned and failed and then I resorted to spontaneity. Living by the day and by the moment works for me better than anything else that I tried. Being flexible helps to see things in a better light and the goal of "zero injuries" is achieved. What I don't understand is how is it that people who fall under the first category manage to have their way?or is it just that they go through this cycle too but are not open about it? If god disposes as per their proposals then why are the others not gifted so? Not that I have a problem with it, its just something I would like to know how it works.